I believe, a smile =) is a curve that sets everything straight ♥


Wednesday, April 29, 2009

On 3:01 PM by Connie Lam in ,     8 comments
In the midst of exam now...
Freaking tension with my revision although just four subjects..

20/4 - Molecular Biology
24/4 - Basic of Ecology
30/4 - Principal of Accounting
8/5 - Biosignaling

Nowadays the weather is seriously hot and hot and hot and it's really makes me can't concentrate on my studies....
I need somewhere which has at least air-con ~ xD
U know, Mcdonalds always my favorite and there i go.........

♥ I need chococlate sundae always haha...... to kill off the heat....

♥ My dinner hehe..... Always my favorite... *drool*

♥ I did bring along my lappie, notes, maxis broadband (I can't live without internet haha) and do u spotted that cute green colour thingy..? My baby ~ xD
♥ If u want to see my ugly messy handwriting, don't hesitate to click on the pic for enlarge view =)

♥ Always smile, rainbow comes after storm (exam)...

And, Mcdonalds I'm Loving It................. xD

Monday, April 27, 2009

On 5:02 PM by Connie Lam in , ,     5 comments

一段愛情 能有多少回憶?
當我開始知道 遺忘原來是這麼恐怖時
我不會忘記 這些所有

Sunday, April 26, 2009

On 7:15 PM by Connie Lam in     9 comments
I'm quite surprise with myself that i actually can maintain my blog for about 1 year++ and finally it reached 200 posts... Congrats to myself hehe =)
Here comes with my post # 201 - another movie review...

Movie : Shinjuku Incident
Starring : Jackie Chan, Daniel Wu, Xu Jinglei, Fan Bing Bing, Ken Watanabe
Ratings : ★★★

Basically this is a gangster movie which loads with brutal actions..
It made my heart beating fast and get my eyes closing in some scenes (when Ah Jie gets his hand cut off after inadvertently falling afoul of a Taiwanese gangster), scary weyyyy.....
What i found different and special in this movie is this is the first time i see Daniel Wu playing conflicted character and he did fantastically in mastering the character Jie..

This movie is worth a watch but make sure u brave enough and can bear with all the gore haha ~ xD

Saturday, April 25, 2009

On 7:14 PM by Connie Lam in , ,     8 comments
I got this from facebook and felt that this story worth a read..
So i decided to share it here with u .....

To those who are married, .. Not married .. and soon to be married


When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I've got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes.

Suddenly I didn't know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want a divorce.. I raised the topic calmly.

She didn't seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why?
I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man! That night, we didn't talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer; she had lost my heart to Dew. I didn't love her anymore. I just pitied her!

With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that she could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company.

She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. The woman who had spent ten years of her life with me had become a stranger. I felt sorry for her wasted time, resources and energy but I could not take back what I had said for I loved Dew so dearly. Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release. The idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer now.

The next day, I came back home very late and found her writing something at the table. I didn't have supper but went straight to sleep and fell asleep very fast because I was tired after an eventful day with Dew.

When I woke up, she was still there at the table writing. I just did not care so I turned over and was asleep again.

In the morning she presented her divorce conditions: she didn't want anything from me, but needed a month's notice before the divorce.
She requested that in that one month we both struggle to live as normal a life as possible. Her reasons were simple: our son had his exams in a month's time and she didn't want to disrupt him with our broken marriage.

This was agreeable to me. But she had something more, she asked me to recall how I had carried her into out bridal room on our wedding day.

She requested that everyday for the month's duration I carry her out of our bedroom to the front door ever morning. I thought she was going crazy. Just to make our last days together bearable I accepted her odd request.

I told Dew about my wife's divorce conditions... She laughed loudly and thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she applies, she has to face the divorce, she said scornfully..

My wife and I hadn't had any body contact since my divorce intention was explicitly expressed. So when I carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mummy in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said softly; don't tell our son about the divorce. I nodded, feeling somewhat upset. I put her down outside the door. She went to wait for the bus to work. I drove alone to the office.

On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my chest. I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that I hadn't looked at this woman carefully for a long time.. I realized she was not young any more. There were fine wrinkles on her face, her hair was graying! Our marriage had taken its toll on her. For a minute I wondered what I had done to her.

On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I felt a sense of intimacy returning. This was the woman who had given ten years of her life to me.

On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of intimacy was growing again. I didn't tell Dew about this. It became easier to carry her as the month slipped by. Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger.

She was choosing what to wear one morning. She tried on quite a few dresses but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses have grown bigger. I suddenly realized that she had grown so thin, that was the reason why I could carry her more easily.

Suddenly it hit me... she had buried so much pain and bitterness in her heart. Subconsciously I reached out and touched her head.

Our son came in at the moment and said, Dad, it's time to carry mum out. To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had become an essential part of his life. My wife gestured to our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I turned my face away because I was afraid I might change my mind at this last minute. I then held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the sitting room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. I held her body tightly; it was just like our wedding day.

But her much lighter weight made me sad. On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step. Our son had gone to school. I held her tightly and said, I hadn't noticed that our life lacked intimacy.

I drove to office.... jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my mind... I walked upstairs. Dew opened the door and I said to her, Sorry, Dew, I do not want the divorce anymore.

She looked at me, astonished, and then touched my forehead. Do you have a fever? She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Dew, I said, I won't divorce. My marriage life was boring probably because she and I didn't value the details of our lives, not because we didn't love each other any more. Now I realize that since I carried her into my home on our wedding day I am supposed to hold her until death do us apart.

Dew seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed the door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove away.

At the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet of flowers for my wife. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the card. I smiled and wrote, I'll carry you out every morning until death do us apart.

That evening I arrived home, flowers in my hands, a smile on my face, I run up stairs, only to find my wife in the bed - dead.

The small details of your lives are what really matter in a relationship. It is not the mansion, the car, property, the money in the bank, blah..blah..blah. These create an environment conducive for happiness but cannot give happiness in themselves. So find time to be your spouse's friend and do those little things for each other that build intimacy. Do have a real happy marriage!

If you don't share this, nothing will happen to you.

If you do, you just might save a marriage.

Thursday, April 23, 2009

On 8:14 PM by Connie Lam     16 comments
Why human needs to eat yeah..?
That's really head scratching and spinning, always got no idea what to eat...
Too much McDonald, need to cut down a bit..
Too much Old Town Kopitiam, no french toast-ing for a short period...
Too much jappie buffet and western foods, getting bored already..

Haiizz...Ended up, went to somewhere for a light dinner..
Let's catch a glimpse of the pictures below...
and guess where i took my dinner and what i had for my dinner =)

♥ I don't know what vehicle is this...

♥ The F1 racing car..? together with tricycle...

♥ I don't know this is the vehicle from which century LOL~ cute though...

♥ Old bike...

♥ another old bike......

What do u feel with the pictures above..? Impressed u alots..?
Im not trying to con u LOL...
Im not trying to blog about i went to museum or exihibition of vehicles~ xD
This is real the place where i took my dinner =)
A restaurant which uses all these vehicles as decoration..

♥ Yeah, Restaurant Sate Kajang Hj. Samuri.. Here we go...
♥ Its kajang satay is well-known among the satay lovers..

♥ It is located right beside stadium kajang....

♥ It seems dominated and crowded with satay lovers..
♥ Here u can get to try varieties of satay such as chicken, chicken
liver, mutton, beef, beef tribe, fish as well as deer and rabbit satay.....

♥ We ordered 10 sticks of chicken satays...
♥ As i don't really dare to try deer, rabbit and beef satays.... Sounds scary...

♥ I love this nasi ketupat hehe but i hate the cucumber which tastes bitter...

♥ They served u the peanut satay sauce together with the sambal so u can mix it according to ur taste if u prefer spicy sauce....

10 sticks of chicken satay just not enough to satisfy the stomach of two persons... So we ordered nasi goreng...

♥ Nasi goreng pattaya...

♥ Nasi goreng ayam...

This is actually my second visit to this restaurant.....
Im a satay lover but i don't really fond of the satay in Hj. Samuri...
Besides, the peanut satay sauce and the sambal just doesn't suit our taste..
Still i prefer my hometown one...
I wonder why they claimed as the best when it comes to satay kajang... zZzzz...
But u still can give a try.. Everyone has different taste =)

Tuesday, April 21, 2009

On 5:01 PM by Connie Lam in ,     11 comments
.. 我好累~~~~~
.. 好痛 ~~~~
.. 我现在所做的所付出的一切,都值得吗?
.. 有必要再继续坚持下去吗?
.. 只有累和泪。。。。






慢慢远离的梦 :渐渐冷却冰封


On 3:18 AM by Connie Lam in ,     No comments
I didn't know about this song until a friend of me shares it with me...
I love it so much...
♫ Take notes on the lyrics, simple, sincere yet heart-warming....

THE ONE (Jennifer Lopez)

Taking away
The fact that I care about you
It's just your way, so sweet
Everything seems right around you
did you know
That you have this calming way about you
In your touch
And I wanna know if I could be your girl

The one who puts her arms around you
The one who lays her head beside you (Your girl)
The one who listens when you need it
When no one else sees, I can see it (Your girl)
The one who knows when something's wrong
The one who knows your favorite song (Your girl)
The one who all your family loves
The one you place no one above

I'm happy to say
In a lot of ways you've changed me
Makes me smile
When you said you were glad the day you found me
I'm wishing away
Any harm that might ever find you
Heaven knows
I really feel, I'll always be your girl

Your girl, your girl (Your girl, your girl...)

I just wanna be the one that's true to you
I just wanna be the one that's makes you smile
I just wanna be (your girl, your girl...)
The one who holds you down
Your girl...

I'll always be...

The one that's true to you, and down for ya
The one that makes you smile and laughs witcha
The one who holds you down, I'm there for ya
The one, the one...
The one, the one...

The one that's true to you
The one that makes you smile
The one that holds you down

The one, the one (The one, the one)

The one that's true to you
The one that makes you smile
The one that holds you down

The one, the one
The one, the one

I can be anything you need...

Sunday, April 19, 2009

On 7:43 PM by Connie Lam in     8 comments
Wanted to watch "Fast & Furious 4" so much but ended up watching "Confessions of a Shopaholic" at Pavilion with my friends... T__T Why?
They didn't purchase the movie ticket online or make reservation..
And both the showing time for "Fast & Furious 4" at 9.30pm and 11.30pm were full seated..

Movie : Confessions of a Shopaholic
Ratings : ★★★

3 star ratings for this comedy movie which filled with laughter with a hint of the romantic kind...
The shopaholic a.k.a Rebecca Bloomwood (Isla Fisher) is charming, funny, adorably goofy yet undeniably attractive =)

That's so true that actually girls can be easily addicted to fashion and cannot stop spending..
I love to shop as well, but for sure i didn't spend recklessly else someone going to chop me and nagging at me ~~ xD

Friday, April 17, 2009

On 3:01 PM by Connie Lam in     22 comments
♥ HapPy BirThdAy tO cOnNie~~ ♥

♥ Birthday is merely symbolic of how another year has gone by and how little we have grown..?
♥ Whatever with the past that gone, the best is always yet to come...
♥ I wanna live a better life....
♥ Dream as if i will live forever, live as if i will die today =)
♥ and today is a gift...

♥ Thanks for the great song ~~ Juanita...

Thomas B. Aldrich..
To keep the heart unwrinkled, to be hopeful, kindly, cheerful, reverent that is to triumph over old age..

Thursday, April 16, 2009

On 3:07 PM by Connie Lam in     10 comments
Event : 20th Intervarsity Biochemistry Seminar - "Towards Excellence In Biochemistry and Biotechnology"
Location : Faculty of Medical and Health Science, UPM..
Time : 8am - 6pm

Most of us were forced to attend this seminar on 21st of March because for those who absent, marks for thesis will be deducted.. Guess this was the only way which professor can use to threaten all the stubborn lazy students who paid RM10 but refuse to attend (Im one of them~ xD)..
For ur information, Im doing my study in UKM, majoring in Biochemistry =)

♥ 20th Intervarsity Biochemistry Seminar...

♥ Faculty of Medical and Health Science, UPM..

♥ 7am ++... A group picture with all my course mates before we headed to UPM by bus..
♥ I had been so long didn't wake up that early in the morning, 6 in the morning...
♥ Im very sleepy still at that moment, hardly open my eyes ....

♥ Breakfast and lunch were provided..
♥ This was the crowd when everyone lining up under the hot sultry skin burning sun to get the foods and drinks..

♥ The lunch - Nasi briyani.. Quite nice...

♥ Two representative from UKM for the poster presentation : Pei San and Lai Teng...

♥ Connie and all the chinese biochemists who attended the seminar =)
♥ From the left : Lai Teng, Jia Huey, Pei San, Rui Rui, Chuan Yin, Juanita and Connie..
♥ I looked so weird in formal shirt ><"
♥ Connie and her final year research project group members...
♥ From the left : Iqah, Naz, Juanita, Connie, Azura and Fariz...

This seminar was actually a good chance to gather all the biochemistry students from different university (UCSI, AIMST, Sunway Univeristy College, UM, UPM, UKM, UTAR, etc) to share and present their research projects..

This seminar was actually not as bored as i thought, i learned something at least...
Besides, Im happy that i managed to meet two of my friends who studying in UM...

Wednesday, April 15, 2009

On 12:38 AM by Connie Lam in ,     2 comments
Happiness is reachable, no matter how long it last.
We should stop making our lives complicated.

.. Life is short.
.. Break the rules,
.. forgive quickly,
.. kiss passionately, love truly
.. laugh constantly,
.. and never stop smiling
.. no matter how strange life is.
.. Life is not always the party we expected to be
.. but as long as we are here, we should smile and be grateful.

Monday, April 13, 2009

On 3:11 PM by Connie Lam in     6 comments
Went to watch this movie at Pavilion with friends...

Movie : Hotel For Dogs
Ratings : ★★★

Wanted to watch this movie so much because I'm attracted by those cute doggies..
This movie was kinda good, another heart-warming movie for kids and families..
But i think this will never happen where dogs can end up working in a hotel..
Now Im thinking of rear a dog so that it can accompany me when I feel lonely =)

♥ Georgia, Juliet, Romeo, Lenny, Cooper, Shep & Lenny
♥ So cute ~~

Sunday, April 12, 2009

On 3:07 PM by Connie Lam     4 comments
Went to YOYO Snack at Midvalley Megamall with BBS last two weeks?
A simple but warm-hearted dinner..
It has been awhile i didn't have a long talk with him someone who likes to crap haha...

♥ The menu......

♥ Milk tea......

♥ My fish fillet rice....... Just nice...

Saturday, April 11, 2009

On 3:25 AM by Connie Lam in     5 comments
Went to watch this movie after sing k session in The Gardens on April's Fool =)

Movie : Dragonball Evolution
Ratings : ★★★

Another amusing movie for kids but bland for adults?
A bit disappointed even though i didn't have any high expectations towards this movie after the movie " Street Fighters" ..
There were not enough fight scenes.. The characters were portrayed terribly..
Besides, Goku's hair was a failure if compared to the manga/anime's..
But there's still some entertaining parts which is quite entertaining...

Goku ((Justin Chatwin)
Goku is the hero of Dragonball. Goku is pure of heart and unusually gifted in martial arts...

Master Roshi (Chow Yun-Fat)
Master Roshi is a turtle hermit, and despite his unusual lifestyle and perverted attitude, he is an extremely gifted martial artist, who once trained Goku’s grandfather, Gohan...

Piccolo (James Marsters)
Lord Piccolo is the evil half of the god of earth, Kami. Piccolo wants the Dragon Balls to wish for immortality to conquer the planet..

Okay, i know this movie review is a little bit bored..? bored? very bored..?
Share a food picture here ~ xD

♥ These sandwiches in Redbox The Gardens not bad ~~keke...